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Not Even a Good Lie
The subject line says “RE: Our call.” There was no call. There was never a call. And somehow, the lie isn’t even the worst part.
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Oct 16, 2026

There’s an email in my inbox. Subject line: “RE: Our call.”
What call.
We never talked. I’ve never heard your name. You just want me to believe we did. Maybe I’ll open it out of politeness. Or panic. Or that small, stupid fear that I forgot something important.
Here’s the thing. I don’t even mind being manipulated.
I mind being manipulated badly.
It’s like watching a bad magician. A good one lies to you for ten straight minutes and you love him for it. You gasp. You lean in. You spend the whole drive home trying to figure out how he did it. A bad one does the exact same trick, except you see the card sliding up his sleeve. Now it’s not magic anymore. It’s just embarrassing. For both of you.
That’s RE:. Same lie, zero craft. It doesn’t even try to be clever. It’s a trick that only works if I’m not paying attention, which tells me exactly what it thinks of my attention.
And this is why people hate advertising. Not because it wants something from them. Everybody wants something. They hate it because so much of it assumes they’re stupid.
Which is a shame. Because marketing can be beautiful. It can make you laugh out loud at a billboard. It can make you feel seen by a cereal box. It can make you want something you didn’t know existed five minutes ago. That’s a trick too. The difference is that you’re happy to be fooled.
RE: ruins it for everyone. Every fake reply teaches people that the next email, the next ad, the next brand is lying to them too. Even the good ones end up paying for it.
So no. I won’t open your RE:.
I saw the sleeve.
Quick answers
Do fake “RE:” subject lines actually work?
They might get the open. They rarely get the trust. The trick is exposed the moment the email loads and there’s no previous conversation. Consumer research calls this persuasion knowledge: people develop and use what they know about marketers’ goals and tactics to cope with persuasion attempts, and they use those attempts to shape their attitudes toward the product and the marketer behind it. Once people spot the tactic, they judge you by it.
Are fake “RE:” subject lines legal?
In the US, they can cross a legal line. Under the CAN-SPAM Rule, email marketers must use accurate headers and subject lines. A subject line that pretends a conversation already happened misrepresents what the email is. Rules in other countries differ, so check your local regulations before sending.
What’s the difference between clever marketing and manipulation?
Whether the trick holds up once people see it. Spotting a sales tactic doesn’t automatically make people more skeptical. In a 2017 series of studies, researchers found that when a persuasive agent uses a credible tactic, recognizing the persuasion attempt can lead people to evaluate the agent and its offering more favorably. The good magician knows you know it’s a trick. The trick works anyway.
What should brands write instead of “RE:”?
A subject line that matches what’s inside the email and still makes someone curious. Give people a real reason to open, then deliver on it. A great subject line feels like the start of the email. A fake one feels like a lie you’ll have to explain.
Sources
Friestad, Marian & Wright, Peter. “The Persuasion Knowledge Model: How People Cope with Persuasion Attempts.” Journal of Consumer Research, 21(1), 1–31, 1994. https://doi.org/10.1086/209380
Isaac, Mathew S. & Grayson, Kent. “Beyond Skepticism: Can Accessing Persuasion Knowledge Bolster Credibility?” Journal of Consumer Research, 2017. https://www.kellogg.northwestern.edu/academics-research/research/detail/2017/beyond-skepticism-can-accessing-persuasion-knowledge-bolster-credibility/
Federal Trade Commission. CAN-SPAM Rule business guidance. https://www.ftc.gov/node/46733
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